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Why You Fail To Get What You Want

No matter how many times you may have failed in your life, you are not a failure. In fact I could go on at length and prove to you scientifically that you have been an unstoppable force of success…for getting what you don’t want.

However since you’re reading this I will go out a limb and assume you would be more interested in knowing why you fail to get what you want, and what you can do about it.

So why do you fail?

You fail because without your conscious knowledge, your conscious and subconscious mind have been conspiring against you. It is such a conspiracy that your conscious and subconscious mind are not even aware of it. They actually believe that they are on your side and acting in your best interest, when nothing could be further from the truth.

Let’s start with your conscious mind. Your conscious mind has a very powerful and positive intention for you, it simply goes about it in a real lousy way. What is the positive intention that your conscious mind has for you? It is to keep you safe.

Which sounds great on the service until you realize that your conscious mind views any change, even if it is a positive change as danger. This means that any time you attempt to make a positive change in your life your conscious mind is going to do everything in its power to stop you from making that change.

How Does Your Conscious Mind Attempt To Stop You?

It does so by asking you seemingly innocent questions like; “Are you sure you want to do that?”, “Do you know enough to do that?” “Are you worthy of doing that?”, “What if you fail?”, “What will people think of you if you don’t succeed?”. and on and on and on. Even though the conscious mind only makes up 3-5 % of your total mind power you tend to give it much more power than that to stop you from getting what you want.

How Do You Give Power To Your Conscious Mind To Stop You?

You do this by actually giving serious consideration to the questions you conscious mind is asking you. You start to ask those same questions of yourself and since you are human and have a default tendency toward the negative, you don’t like the answers that come back and eventually you tell yourself that “Now is not the right time.” or other similar lies.

As if that wasn’t bad enough, your subconscious mind which is 95-98% of your total mind power operates under a completely different set of rules. Your subconscious mind does not have the power of reason, is not logical, and does not distinguish between “good” and “bad” like your conscious mind. Your subconscious mind operates under the assumption that everything that is contained within it is to be acted upon and created in your life on a moment by moment day by day basis. This would be great if your subconscious mind only contained positive information that would support you fully living and expressing the person you were born to be. However, you know from your own life that is not the case.

“Reality” Has Nothing To Do With It

What is contained in your subconscious mind is not even based on any reality (whatever that is), it is based on your perception of reality. To be more precise ,most of what is in your subconscious mind is based on the perceptions of a young vulnerable and impressionable child. From the time you are born until about 6-8 years old every experience you have gets recorded in your subconscious mind. It gets recorded not based on the facts or reality of the situation, but rather your perception of the facts.

As an example: Let’s imagine that when you were 5 years old you were playing with your toys in your room. From another room you could hear your parents arguing. They could have been arguing about anything; Dad forgot to take out the trash again or he left his dirty socks on the floor again or mom spent too much money on a dress even though what she bought was “on sale”. However, even though what they were arguing about had nothing to do with you, you perceived it to mean “I must have done something wrong and that’s why mommy and daddy are fighting.”

Even though this perception has nothing to do with the reality of the situation it gets recorded as “fact” in your subconscious mind. This fact , like most of the facts you have in subconscious mind are based on inaccurate, incomplete or simply wrong information. Even so, they dictate how you feel about yourself and about what is possible in your life.

More Bad News…

I have more bad news (though I promise there is light coming just ahead) From the time you are about 8-12 years old, another area of your mind begins to form, and this is the Critical Area of Mind. The best way to think about this area of mind is as a filter that sits between your Conscious and Subconscious Mind. The primary purpose of the Critical Area of Mind is to seal in everything that is contained in your subconscious mind and to filter out any new information that does not agree with what is already there.

Wow!…Is it any wonder? Is it any wonder that despite your best efforts, despite doing everything in your power, everything you could think of, that over and over agin you failed to get what you want in your life? I want to tell you that it is not your fault. You did the best you could with the knowledge and understanding that you had. That being said, today is a new day and with every new day comes a new opportunity to make different choices and to go in a different direction.

You Can Change The Way Your Mind Works

There are many tools and processes that you can take advantage of to shift and transform the power of your conscious and subconscious mind so that they work for you rather than against you. Some of these (when used correctly) include affirmations, visualization, guided meditations. These are not new and many people have tried them and perhaps even you with little or no success. It is not that these and other other such tools are lacking in power to transform, rather it is their incorrect application that renders few if any positive results.

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